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Kathrene
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| Hey Janiek it s me Kathrene,
I thought I would write you now, I may not have time to write you later if I don t do this now... I don t even know where to start from, I have so much I wanna talk about, I would rather take it one after the other, that way it won t be too much for you. I have got some questions i would love to ask you before I kick off the conversation, with that, I would be sure of what to find if this relationship lead us where we both have always wanna go on the journey of a lifetime, you know what I mean. so if your answers to my questions matches what I m looking for, then I sure would have no problem going any length to making this relationship work if we both want each other thereafter. I hope you will answer my questions. Oh I also have decided to share briefly about myself, at least you can decide from here if I fit into the kind of lady you want to find. like I have said earlier, I m gonna to write too much, so I m gonna have to make it short letter. To kick off, I wanna start off by saying that i had prayed before I sent you the message on the site.. Honestly, I have written the message to you and another guy. the other guy has not written back to me, maybe my prayer is working already who knows lol. actually I prayed for just one guy, one love, one soul mate, one partner, one lifetime relationship. I had prayed that God should turn out the whoever response to be the man I have longed for. Now, the question is could you be that man? now that i have a response from you, probably the other guy was not anywhere close to what im looking for, otherwise he would have at least respond even if he may not want a relationship at the moment or not at all. Don t you think that could probably be the reason why he had not written back to me? Mmm enough of that anyway, lets see what is in for us. Yeah my name is Kathrene, but you could call me Becky. right at present, I m living with my Mother right here in beautiful city of Lagos, and have been here since the divorced between my Mom and my Dad. Really before my Dad died, we were living peacefully together in Florida, but before then let me quickly phrase out some more important thing you should take note. My Dad was an American, and my mother half Germany, and then half Nigerian who had lived almost her life in Frankfurt. they both met on a trip down to Paris for Vacation, and my Mother to Amsterdam, they met each other and were friends till they were finally able to find genuine that finally bound them together, and had led to my existence(birth) in life. Mmm.... they both were Christians, just like my Mother would say to me, that if my Daddy wasn t a Christian, she wouldn t have agree to marry him when he proposed to her. we all were living peaceful before my Daddy had to divorce my Mom due to some sort of things i don t know if i should tell you here because i don t know you yet, so please don t worry about it, I m only trying to be cautious of who I m dealing with, maybe when i know you well enough alright? anyway to make it short, my Daddy and i lived alone in Lehigh acres, FL after the divorced between him and Mother. so Mom couldn t stand it living in the city anymore, she packed her stuffs and then went back to Frankfurt to live on her life right there. one afternoon was when i got a message from someone who almost witness the incident with my Daddy, saying that he died on the spot of the incident. it was so painful to recall this memory. at last i had no other choice than to go live with my Mother in Frankfurt as i felt i needed someone around to help me through life difficulties before i can carry on myself you know what i mean. On another unfaithful day, Mother felt on her knee and collapsed, and instantly she was rushed to the hospital, but at last she was confirmed to have had a cancer problem which was treated for several months, but didn t left her body, just a little and finally before we knew it, she was having some sort of tumor which had kept coming after some certain time of treatment. she insisted she had to come to Nigeria where she could get some natural herb cure like she had seen being advertised on TV stations. this is exactly how we finally arrived in Nigeria and my mother decided we live in here for as long as it will take for her health to get better and probably absolute. Mmmm... right here in Lagos is a small but extremely beautiful city we have been living in. As a matter of fact, non citizens admitted the beauty, there is no doubt about that. me and my Mom now live together in an apartment here. I m the only daughter of my parent. honestly she is very nice, kind, caring and loving Mother anyone would pray to have. she treats me like every good Mother would treat their beloved daughter. Now i must say to you exactly what I m looking for in a soul mate, someone i could call my own, a man in whom I could invest my stipend, good deeds, seriousness. i know out there lies someone who has the nature of God inside of him, someone who would be ready to give 100% of himself. of course I m not getting any younger as my age increases by year. I m 5 9 tall .. I do not smoke nor drink because it is against my Christianity belief. I m 30, born Jan 1st. I ve lived with my Mother almost all my life, I have never been married or experience the sweetness of marriage, and not married yet, just looking for the rightful one now.. I finished College and University, and graduated when I was 25, since then I have been looking carefully for a good man to start a life with even though i had been hurt by a guy who I thought loved me. I m very easy going and open-minded kind of lady. I m not a self centredness kind of person, I definitely would share everything i have in my possession with my rightful man to be. I m deeply into religion (Christianity). I hope that doesn t scare you away, because some don t like Christians ladies, most especially when they found out that you living the life of Jesus likes. I do believe in God first before anything else. i was raised as a Christian, I do go to church to talk to God. so yes I m God fearing, I have no time to play games or play with your heart or someone else heart! I m home loving, very affectionate, fun to be with. I m easy understanding person, romantic, hard working, very sincere, simple open-minded, sexually attractive no doubt, very faithful and loyal, and most of all honest. Also this is the quality i seek in a man; one who will be dedicated to being my husband, loyal, faithful and honest. one who knows what it means to being in love, one who is very affectionate, simple, easy going, fun to be with, caring, very sincere, very romantic, giving nature, tolerant home loving, hard working, reliable, sensual, with a sense of humor. one who will be a good husband! i have contacted you because your profile was interesting to me.. and because of what you said in it made me feel that you were looking for a soul mate! I m single and alone because I haven t find the type of man I want to spend all my life with, to stick by me through thick & thin, good & bad! I m looking for someone who has a good heart. someone who is mature and knows what he wants. I m looking for a man not a boy. he can love me as Christ does Eph. 5:22-33. if you have your own children already, not to worry because i would love them like their Biological Mother would love them. someone who possesses integrity, responsibility and an easy going nature, who is secure in himself with a deep love for God and a desire to have him first in our lives. someone who can be strong for me when I m weak. someone who wants to have worship together and have a Christian home, my parents have this kind of a home and i would love to share that with someone. God is still working with me and patience and support is what i need. Here the questions goes; why do you think you are ready for Commitment and maybe Marriage that is if you feel you are? are you an impatient person, do you consider your wife to be first before anything else? do you think your woman to be would own a good and large place in your heart? what are the qualities you think could make you feel bad about your woman? as for me I feel if my man isn t serious and don t take me much important as he might love his job or something precious to his heart, definitely i wouldn t give him my all and all, because I know I would regret at last. some men which I have known at this extent of my life count so much on money earn than their wife, are you the type? I m just ready to devote my time for my man to be now that I m patiently searching, I m ready to give him everything it take to make him happy. I m easy going, I seek in my heart a man who would just give me a chance in our relationship to show him my love and care. do you really live alone? are you sure you don t have a woman already at home? what is the nature of your job? what do you do on weekends? how long have you been into your present job and what s the nature of your job? tell me that only if you feel comfortable to tell alright? do like the stipend? have you ever had kids? if yes, would your children mind you bringing in another woman? do you have a computer you use at home anytime? what does a relationship really means to you, and how important is your woman to you and what type of woman are you interested in exactly? would you ever support her somehow if she can t help it all to making the meeting face to face? you haven t told me what part of the Country you lived in? how did you find out about the sites where we had met? out of all the ladies that contacted you, were you interested in any more of them besides me? if no why? did you ever finish your educational courses just wanna know, not really necessary alright? tell me your height, weight, hair color, eye color, city or town you live in? do you have children? if yes how many? what type of career you would like to have? do you smoke, or you drink and do you consider yourself a sensual man, and do you like to pamper[spoil] your woman? You might be wondering why all this questions; this relationship I m about to step into would be my career, my future so I must be very careful to know what is right from wrong you know what I mean. some men doesn t have time to spend with their wife sexually.. some denote and devote all their time for their jobs only and their friends.. So I think I want a man who will take me as his first and last thing on earth, a man who will give me all the I ever wanted, no making me hurt, no making me cry tears of sorrow, no hurting the kids if we ever have that together. I believe whatever it is i have right now, also belongs to my husband to be. life is just so simple but the wicked and mendacious men has made it so hard and difficult to differentiate. I don t have to hide my personality.. I have met a lot of men who after knowing each other for maybe 2weeks or less, I find out they aren t being plain or straight forward, some even go to the extent of having more extra marital affairs with other woman out there beside the relationship they seems to have commitment to. Once more, do you think you have time to write daily, because that seems to be a way of learning about each other as soon as we can. I m not here to play. I m a busy person too, my work take so much of my time, but then leave that to me, I sure will find a way to write you everyday, bet that could easily get us closer to know if we are good for each other. so if you don t write back, I would easily understand you don t match my criteria.. so if you don t mind, you can answer the following questions. Really I have more questions but I will ask them later, meeting people this way is scary for me because you don t know their intentions or if they are sincere about being with you or trying to get into your life and turn it upside down.. I think that is enough.. anyway you can ask me anything, and i will answer and anymore. Please be sincere and honest. I m a regular lady who wants to find love even if I have to go across the world to find happiness! So if you want to be on the same page as me and want to find happiness then lets see how it goes.. I have to stop here, but will write you when i get a response from you, and if you don t, then Good luck! Kathrene P.S I would like it if you could send me several pictures of you, maybe in different outlook. ----When you arise in the morning, think what a precious privilege it is to live, to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.. Kathrene---- |