|Hello Mr. xxx
How are you doing?Am fin and i do hope that you are also doing great...
I wink at you and as you have writ to me i also need to do so .
We can then need to talk and to get to know more about our self as well.
I will like you to tell me more about your self and what and why you are on AFF.?
I do hope to here from you and till then take care ..
Nice mail from you and here we go again.......
Thanks you very much for the mail and am happy to here these from you again..Well all what i can tell you here is that am okay with your mail and also the English, I understand everything you wort to me here,Life is not all what you will think it will be but in life you can make it how good you wanted it to be.
I was also once marry but was not lucky and i lost him in an accident and that was why am also here looking for a now love ,i was on the where we meet for only the few past days and i meet you and so i do hope that all will work well so we can together as we want.I have just start seeking and since i meet you i stop and will hold on to you and know and see how it will be for us ?
You may think that am younger but i do love to have a old man who know much in love and that was why i seek your age type as well. Sorry about me ,am a Teacher that i do teach here in Ghana and i live here in Tema near the see and i walk to my school where i teach ,not far from me and i love to teach ...My Father was from United Kingdom and my Mother is from Ghana , i was with my Mother from the time i lost my late husband and that was why am still living here in Ghana .
In my free times I like to laugh, to tell jokes. In every situation I try to make a lesson for myself. I am a little jealous. Very calm. Sometimes they ask me, “how can you be so calm when there is such a problem?”, and I answer, “only calm, well-balanced state of mind will help to find the way out”. And when a person is in hysterics they can passionately make a lot of mistakes. I want to be wise for my man. I want to make him happy everyday, to help him morally, to support as a friend. I will try to become a good friend, wife, lover and a reliable life partner for my man.
TRUST AND FAITH
Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don t have these ingredients you will never succeed.
To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you re trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone s hands. Faith is what you hold on to.
Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her realize how much you really love her.
Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.
You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient.
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud................... It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you ve got, even when you know it s not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it s a simple understanding and trust between two people....................
relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn t be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn t likely to grow, and become something that you desire.
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.
When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn t willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.
Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.
There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.
Well my dear here are some few things about me and if anything that you do not understand ,pls you can ask me more and i will be so happy to tell you more ...Till then take care and bye for now..
Greetings from Ghana....